Better conversations start here.

Difficult conversations are part of being human.

At work, at home, with people you care about — sometimes you need to say the thing you'd rather avoid.

Con4sation gives you practical tools to help you understand what's happening, prepare properly and have better conversations.

Communication Survival Kit

The Communication Survival Kit takes you through the practical Con4sation tools for understanding what's happening, preparing properly and navigating difficult conversations when emotion, awkwardness or silence enters the room.

No endless theory. No corporate waffle. Just practical tools you can use straight away.

30 minutes. Practical tools for difficult conversations.

Sometimes you know you need to have the conversation.

You just don't know how to have it without making things worse.

Con4sation®

The book behind the methodology.

Why do difficult conversations become difficult?

Why do we get defensive, go quiet, avoid the issue or say something we immediately wish we hadn't?

Con4sation® explores the thinking behind better conversations and introduces the practical methodology developed by Adam Moore.

Inside you'll discover the entire methodology including:

The Facts of Life
What happens inside us when conversations become difficult.

LIFE Influences
The four things that can trigger an amygdala takeover.

The Con4sation Journey Planner
A practical route through a difficult conversation.

Listening, Impact and Likeability
The other elements that sit at the heart of the methodology.

This isn't a book about having perfect conversations.

It's about getting better at the conversations that matter.

Remote Rescue:

1-to-1 Con4sation Coaching

Sometimes you don't need another course. You need to talk it through.

1-to-1 Con4sation Coaching
£175 · 60 minutes · Google Meet

Bring me the conversation you're worrying about, avoiding or simply don't know how to approach.

We'll look at:

What's actually happening?
What do you need from the conversation?
What might be getting in the way?
How could you approach it differently?

This isn't about giving you a perfect script.

It's about helping you think clearly, prepare properly and walk into the conversation with a plan.

One hour.

One real situation.

Practical help from someone who knows difficult conversations inside out.

Adam Moore
Founder of Con4sation

Your call takes place via Google Meet and your appointment is added to your calendar automatically.

Not sure where to start?

Sometimes you know you need to do something differently, but you’re not quite sure what.
That’s what Con4sation is all about.

Explore the Con4sation® website to understand the thinking behind the Con4sation methodology, or get in touch if you have a situation you’d like to talk through.

Better conversations don't happen by accident.

Con4sation®

Better conversations. Better relationships. Happier lives.